{"id":5370,"date":"2015-08-11T01:00:13","date_gmt":"2015-08-10T15:00:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/realestatetalk.com.au\/?p=5370"},"modified":"2015-08-11T01:00:13","modified_gmt":"2015-08-10T15:00:13","slug":"10-things-you-must-do-or-stop-doing-if-you-want-to-be-happy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/channels.realty.com.au\/realtytalk\/10-things-you-must-do-or-stop-doing-if-you-want-to-be-happy\/","title":{"rendered":"10 things you must do \u2013 or stop doing \u2013 if you want to be happy &#8211; Michael Yardney"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\nIn today&#8217;s show\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/realestatetalk.com.au\/featured-channel\/michael-yardney\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Michael Yardney<\/a><\/strong>, from\u00a0Metropole Property Strategists, shares some personal insight about being as happy as you wish\u2026 if you get rid of the 10 deadly habits he will outline.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4>Transcript:<\/h4>\n<p><b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 It occurred to me when I was attending Michael Yardney\u2019s five-day wealth retreat recently that there\u2019s a lot more to being successful in life than just earning a lot of money and owning a lot of property. It really comes down to how happy and how healthy you are.<br \/>\nThat\u2019s what I want to talk to Michael about today. It\u2019s a little bit different, Michael, but I thought we might introduce this. I know you\u2019ve written about the 10 things you must do \u2013 or stop doing \u2013 if you want to be happy. I thought we might quickly run through those?<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 Good point, Kevin. There are things you must do, but there are definitely things you also should not do. I\u2019ve learned these from the successful people I\u2019ve mentored over the years.<br \/>\nIf we go though some of the things you shouldn\u2019t do if you want to be happy, I think one of the first ones is holding onto the past. Whether they\u2019re good memories or bad memories, spending your life in another time or another place isn\u2019t going to propel you forward. The past doesn\u2019t determine your future, Kevin.<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 It certainly doesn\u2019t.<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 Number two is negative self-talk. You know that little voice in your brain: \u201cI\u2019m not good enough,\u201d \u201cI\u2019m not ready yet,\u201d \u201cI don\u2019t know enough.\u201d You actually have to cut out the negative self-talk and think positively.<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 It\u2019s so easy to do, too.<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 The third thing you should not do if you want to become successful is procrastinate.<br \/>\nSometimes, it looks like you have to get a little more information or learn is little bit more. There are always excuses why not to do it, but successful people take action; unsuccessful people procrastinate.<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 Interesting on that point too, Michael, every time I procrastinate over something and then do it, I think, \u201cWhy did I procrastinate over that? It was so easy to get through.\u201d<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 Of course, you\u2019re right, aren\u2019t you, Kevin?<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 Indeed. What was the next one?<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 I think another point you should let go of is blaming. There\u2019s not such thing as a rich victim. People tend to blame their education, their parents, the economic climate at the moment, or the banks. You have to become the pilot of your life, not the passenger. Successful people don\u2019t blame others.<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 You think it\u2019s about taking responsibility, Michael?<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 Good point. You have to be the pilot of your life, not the passenger. You take responsibility.<br \/>\nAnother thing you\u2019ve got to get rid of is living for your paycheck, working from wage packet to wage packet. What you have to start doing is understand that your job is important to help you pay the bills, but you also have to start building assets to start thinking like a businessperson. Even if you don\u2019t run a business, run your own property investment business.<br \/>\nI think another thing you should do is give up the issue about taking on a challenge. Never accepting challenges is like never wanting to change. You have to realize that for you to get to the next level in your personal life, your financial life, or anything, you going to have to do things differently, otherwise you would already be there.<br \/>\nDon\u2019t be scared of taking on challenges, and don\u2019t be scared of it occasionally not working as well. That\u2019s the way life is.<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 Just on that point, I think what actually makes the character of the person is whether or not you\u2019re willing to face those challenges. I think sometimes challenges are put in front of us to actually help us grow. It\u2019s how you meet them, Michael.<br \/>\n<b>Michael:\u00a0 <\/b>Very much so. They wouldn\u2019t be put there in front of you if you couldn\u2019t overcome them.<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 We all have that ability; it\u2019s whether or not we really want to.<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 That\u2019s right. Sometimes it\u2019s easier to stay where you are.<br \/>\nAnother thing you need to stop doing if you want to be successful, if you want to feel successful, is stop comparing yourself to others. It doesn\u2019t matter what other people have done or haven\u2019t done, because when you actually get below the surface, you\u2019ll find everyone has their challenges and problems, and they\u2019re possibly not as happy or successful as they seem to be. What you really have to do is just live your life for yourself and your loved ones, and don\u2019t compare yourself to others, or anyone\u2019s estimate of you. It doesn\u2019t matter.<br \/>\nThe other thing you have to give up is being ungrateful. In reverse, what you really have to do is be grateful. We live in the best country in the world, in the best time in history, with the most opportunities.<br \/>\nBe grateful for what you have. In fact, one of the things I do every morning before I get out of bed is thank myself or the world. I don\u2019t necessarily believe in God and I\u2019m not necessarily spiritual, but I\u2019m actually grateful, and in my mind, I think through four things that I\u2019m grateful for today, to give me a good day.<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 What about treating yourself, Michael?<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 You have to be nice to yourself, as well. You have to appreciate that you deserve wealth, you deserve happiness, and you deserve what you have in life. That\u2019s a good point, Kevin. Stop not being nice to yourself \u2013 because we\u2019re talking about the negatives. The reverse is to be nice to yourself; you deserve it!<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 One of the points you made there was about comparing yourself to others. I think sometimes we do that because we\u2019re trying to be someone that we\u2019re really not.<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 Yes. Your parents possibly told you that you should have gone to college, you should have gone to university, you should have been a dentist, or whatever. No. Don\u2019t live anybody else\u2019s life. Be yourself, Kevin.<br \/>\nThere are some interesting lessons that I believe we should be thinking about \u2013 things to stop doing so that you can start being successful.<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 Just before I let you go, I have a question that was sent into us by Andy. Thank you for your question. You mentioned in one of your books about giving a gift to your property manager, and if the gift is less than $300, it doesn\u2019t require a receipt.<br \/>\nDo you want to add a little bit more to that, Michael?<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 The simple answer is that the cost of doing business involves expenses. One of the expenses can genuinely be giving gifts to staff or consultants. It could be your accountant at the end of the year, and why not your property manager who looks after it?<br \/>\nYou can give regular gifts to staff members, and that $300 has more to do with staff members. If it\u2019s a one off gift to your property manager, as long as it\u2019s a reasonable amount, the tax department isn\u2019t going to question it.<br \/>\nWhen I talked about receipts, that was really with regard to your regular staff, but if you\u2019re doing a one-off thing to your property manager, why not keep the receipt just in case the taxman checks?<br \/>\n<b>Kevin:<\/b>\u00a0 Indeed. Always good talking to you. Michael Yardney from Metropole Property Strategists and, of course, Michael\u2019s blog \u201cProperty Updates.\u201d Check that out, as well.<br \/>\nMichael, thanks for your time.<br \/>\n<b>Michael:<\/b>\u00a0 My pleasure, Kevin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; In today&#8217;s show\u00a0Michael Yardney, from\u00a0Metropole Property Strategists, shares some personal insight about being as happy as you wish\u2026 if you get rid of the 10 deadly habits he will outline. &nbsp; Transcript: Kevin:\u00a0 It occurred to me when I was attending Michael Yardney\u2019s five-day&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":176692471,"featured_media":5371,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,13,25],"tags":[101],"class_list":["post-5370","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kevin-turner-sponsored-channels","category-latest-story","category-sponsored-channels","tag-podcast"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>10 things you must do \u2013 or stop doing \u2013 if you want to be happy - Michael Yardney - Realty Talk<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/channels.realty.com.au\/realtytalk\/10-things-you-must-do-or-stop-doing-if-you-want-to-be-happy\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"10 things you must do \u2013 or stop doing \u2013 if you want to be happy - Michael Yardney - Realty Talk\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"&nbsp; 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